A memorandum of wishes template helps you give executors clear, non-binding context about specific assets without turning a personal note into a second Will. It can identify jewellery, artwork, vehicles, shares, real property, business interests, intellectual property, digital assets, family loans, safe-deposit contents and sentimental belongings; explain where records are kept; and state what you hope happens if an asset is sold, replaced, financed, jointly owned or no longer exists.
The memorandum should support the formal estate plan, not compete with it. A legally effective gift belongs in the Will, trust deed, beneficiary nomination, company agreement or other governing instrument. The memorandum is where you add the practical roadmap: how to identify the asset, who understands it, why a preference matters, which adviser holds the records, what liabilities attach to it and which fallback outcome would reduce confusion.
This guide contains a full 20-section working template with detailed grey response boxes. It covers asset ownership, specific gifts, personal effects, real estate, rental property, vehicles, cash, shares, superannuation, insurance, trusts, companies, small business, intellectual property, digital property, secured assets, safe-deposit boxes, family debts, early inheritances, valuation, sale and version control.
It should sit beside your letter of wishes, executor handover pack, emergency binder and digital legacy directory. Those documents may share references, but they should remain separately labelled so executors know which record is legal, practical, personal or security-sensitive.
What the current leading memorandum of wishes resources cover
Willed’s current letter and memorandum of wishes guidance explains that the document can provide confidential context for executors, describe family circumstances, identify digital assets and advisers, and explain distributions or exclusions while remaining non-binding.
Rockliffs Lawyers’ memorandum of wishes guidance adds personal assets, emotional-value items, document locations, family trusts, superannuation, offshore entities and digital assets. It also highlights the memorandum’s possible use in explaining why a beneficiary received a reduced gift or was excluded.
Carroll & O’Dea’s estate-planning analysis provides the critical safety layer: a memorandum is non-binding, should guide rather than fetter discretion, and must not be drafted in a way that creates an informal Will or conflicts with the formal instruments.
The Evaheld template covers all of that and goes further. It adds an asset-by-asset identification standard, ownership and estate-entry checks, substitute recipients, what happens if an item is sold or replaced, debt and security-interest context, interim rental-property management, share and company records, business continuity, intellectual-property ownership, crypto and digital property, family loans, lifetime gifts, valuations, safe-deposit access and a complete executor action record.
Memorandum of wishes template versus a Will, letter of wishes and personal property memorandum
The terms are sometimes used loosely, but the purpose of each document should be clear.
Will: the formal legal document that appoints executors and distributes estate assets.
Memorandum of wishes: a usually non-binding record giving detailed context about assets, administration and preferences.
Letter of wishes: a broader companion document that may include trustees, guardians, dependants, funeral preferences, family context and personal guidance.
Personal property memorandum: a narrower list or schedule focused on tangible personal effects, where recognised by the Will and applicable law.
Ethical will: a personal values-and-stories document rather than an executor asset instruction. Evaheld’s ethical will template keeps that emotional legacy separate.
A memorandum may be referenced by a Will, but it should not be assumed that the reference makes every preference legally binding. The Will’s drafting, the jurisdiction, the type of asset and the executor’s duties all matter. High-value, disputed or unique assets should be reviewed with an estate-planning solicitor.
Create your memorandum of wishes template in Evaheld now, starting with the current Will date, executor details and the assets most likely to create uncertainty.
Which assets actually enter the estate
An executor can act only in relation to assets and rights that the estate controls. Before writing a preference, identify the legal owner and the pathway on death.
An individually owned bank account, car, artwork or shareholding may enter the estate. Jointly held property may pass to a surviving joint owner depending on the form of ownership. Superannuation may be paid under a death-benefit nomination or fund rules. Life insurance may have a nominated beneficiary. Trust assets belong to the trust, not personally to the person who established or controlled it. Company-owned property belongs to the company, even where the deceased was its sole shareholder.
Moneysmart’s current estate-planning overview explains that an estate includes assets and liabilities and may require several coordinated documents. Its superannuation death-benefit guidance confirms that super does not automatically form part of the estate.
For every asset, record the owner, ownership type, governing record and adviser. Do not write “my family trust property” as though it were personally owned. Do not give away “my company car” through a memorandum if the registered owner is the company. The memorandum should direct the executor to the right legal and professional records.
How to identify a specific asset so an executor can find it
Vague descriptions create disputes and failed gifts. “My jewellery”, “the vintage car”, “the beach house shares” or “my art” may not identify one asset with certainty.
For tangible assets, include the type, maker, model, serial number, distinguishing features, photograph reference, valuation reference and exact location. For real property, include the street address, title reference if available, ownership structure, mortgage lender and property manager. For shares, include the legal entity, class, number, holding reference, broker or registry and whether the shares are personally or beneficially held.
Legal123’s current specific-assets guide emphasises precise identification, photographs and valuations for jewellery and other unique property. Evaheld’s heirloom documentation guide adds the family story and preservation context.
Do not expose full account numbers, identity documents, safe combinations or private keys in a copy likely to circulate. Use partial references and point to the protected source record.
Fallback instructions when an asset changes before death
A specific item may be sold, destroyed, replaced, refinanced, transferred into a trust, converted into another investment or used as security. Your memorandum should anticipate change without pretending to create a legal substitute gift.
Useful fallback language may say:
the preference ends if the identified asset is no longer owned;
a substantially equivalent replacement may be considered, subject to the Will and legal advice;
the executor should follow the residuary clause if the item cannot be identified;
sale proceeds are not intended to replace the item unless the Will says so;
a backup recipient may be considered if the preferred recipient dies or declines the item;
the executor may sell the asset if transfer, storage, insurance or division is impractical.
The executor must still apply the formal Will and relevant law. The memorandum records your intended practical response, not a legally guaranteed replacement.
Specific assets that need more than a beneficiary name
Real property and rental property
Record title and ownership, mortgage and offset accounts, tenants, leases, property manager, insurance, rates, repairs, keys, utilities and the first management actions. A preference to keep or sell the property must remain subject to the Will, debts, tax, beneficiary agreement and executor duties.
Vehicles, boats and financed equipment
Include registration, VIN or serial number, finance, insurance, keys, storage, service records, accessories and whether the executor should obtain a valuation before transfer or sale.
Jewellery, art and collections
Use photographs and item numbers. Record provenance, valuation, authenticity papers, storage, insurance and whether several people should receive copies, digital scans or an opportunity to choose.
Shares and investments
Identify the legal holder, registry or broker, HIN or SRN reference location, share class, certificates, cost-base records, dividend information and any shareholder agreement. ASIC’s members-register guidance lists the records companies must keep for shareholdings and recognises executor-held interests.
Business and intellectual property
Separate ownership, management and family preference. Identify companies, partnerships, sole-trader registrations, licences, key contracts, staff responsibilities, domains, copyright, trade marks, patents, designs, royalties and professional advisers. IP Australia explains that intellectual-property ownership may belong to an individual, business, employer or contractor and must be checked before transfer.
Digital assets and cryptocurrency
Record the platform or wallet type, legal ownership, authorised access method, recovery-plan location, tax records, intended preservation or closure and the person who understands the asset. Never place private keys or seed phrases in the memorandum.
Complete memorandum of wishes template for specific assets
Replace each grey guidance box with your own information. Remove sections that do not apply. The final document should be reviewed against the current Will, trust documents, nominations, ownership records and professional advice.
Section 1: Document identity, status and intended effect
1.1 Who created this memorandum, and when?
1.2 Who should read it?
1.3 Do you intend these instructions to be binding where legally possible?
Yes — I intend this to be binding where legally possible
No — this is non-binding guidance only
Important: Selecting “Yes” does not itself make the memorandum legally binding. Ask an estate-planning solicitor whether any intended binding gift or direction must be placed in the Will or another formal document.
1.4 Which earlier memoranda does this version replace?
Section 2: Current Will, legal documents and controlling records
2.1 Where is the original Will?
2.2 Which other documents control assets or benefits?
2.3 Which document prevails if there is a conflict?
Section 3: Master asset index and ownership check
3.1 What assets need specific executor attention?
3.2 Who legally owns each asset?
3.3 Does the asset pass through the estate?
3.4 What debt, finance or security attaches to it?
Section 4: Specific asset identification standard
4.1 How can the executor distinguish the asset from similar property?
4.2 Where is the asset physically or digitally located?
4.3 Which photograph, valuation or ownership document supports the identification?
Section 5: Preferred recipient and fallback outcome
5.1 Who is the preferred recipient?
5.2 Why does this recipient make sense?
5.3 Who is the backup recipient?
5.4 What should happen if nobody accepts the asset?
Section 6: Asset sold, replaced, damaged or missing
6.1 Does the preference end if the asset is no longer owned?
6.2 What if the asset is damaged or incomplete?
6.3 What if the executor cannot find it?
Section 7: Jewellery, art, collections and heirlooms
7.1 Which items require individual photographs and valuations?
7.2 What provenance or family story belongs with each item?
7.3 What process should apply if several people want the same item?
Section 8: Real property and title records
8.1 What property is involved?
8.2 What should happen before sale or transfer is considered?
8.3 Is keeping the property a preference or a binding gift?
Section 9: Rental and income-producing property
9.1 Who manages the property today?
9.2 What interim asset-management instructions matter?
9.3 What factors should inform a sale or retention decision?
Section 10: Vehicles, boats and financed equipment
10.1 How is each asset identified?
10.2 Is finance or a security interest attached?
10.3 Should the asset be transferred, sold or retained temporarily?
The Personal Property Securities Register explains how security-interest priority may affect claims over personal property.
Section 11: Cash, bank accounts and term deposits
11.1 Which institutions and account types exist?
11.2 Are accounts linked to loans, offsets, direct debits or business operations?
11.3 Is any cash held physically?
Section 12: Shares, managed investments and stock certificates
12.1 What holdings exist?
12.2 Where are cost-base, dividend and tax records?
12.3 Are any shares governed by restrictions or agreements?
Section 13: Superannuation and life insurance
13.1 Which super funds and policies exist?
13.2 Does the benefit pass to the estate or another beneficiary?
13.3 What context should the executor understand?
Section 14: Trusts, companies and non-estate assets
14.1 Which trusts or companies hold relevant assets?
14.2 What role did you hold, and what happens to that role?
14.3 Which assets are controlled by those entities rather than the estate?
14.4 What guidance is appropriate without fettering discretion?
Section 15: Small business and sole-trader continuity
15.1 What must happen in the first business week?
15.2 Who can operate or advise the business?
15.3 Where are contracts, licences and succession agreements?
15.4 What is your preference for sale, continuation or wind-down?
ASIC’s current business-name guidance after death explains the legal-personal-representative process.
Section 16: Intellectual property, royalties and creative assets
16.1 What intellectual property exists?
16.2 Who is the legal owner?
16.3 Which renewals, licences or revenue streams require action?
16.4 What is your preferred preservation or commercialisation outcome?
Section 17: Digital assets, crypto and online income
17.1 Which digital assets have financial or family value?
17.2 Where is the secure access and recovery plan?
17.3 What tax, ownership and transaction records exist?
17.4 What should be preserved, transferred, sold or closed?
Section 18: Family loans, debts and early inheritances
18.1 What money is owed to you?
18.2 What money do you owe?
18.3 Which transfers were gifts, loans or early inheritances?
18.4 What should the executor not infer?
Section 19: Safe-deposit boxes, storage and hidden records
19.1 Which safe-deposit boxes or storage facilities exist?
19.2 What is believed to be stored there?
19.3 Who can help the executor obtain lawful access?
19.4 Where are title deeds, stock certificates and original ownership records?
Section 20: Valuation, sale, storage, review and change history
20.1 Which assets need an independent valuation?
20.2 What sale process do you hope the executor considers?
20.3 Where is the current memorandum stored, and who has access?
20.4 When should it be reviewed?
20.5 What changed in this version?
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Worked memorandum of wishes example for specific assets
Private and confidential—to my executors.
This memorandum supports my Will dated 18 June 2026. It records personal preferences and practical information only. The Will, trust documents, beneficiary nominations and applicable law prevail if there is any inconsistency.
ASSET-001 is my mother’s platinum engagement ring, identified in photograph JEW-01 and the valuation dated 2 February 2026. It is stored in the bank safe-deposit box recorded in the executor handover pack. I hope it passes to my daughter, Claire, because she knows its history. If Claire does not survive me or does not wish to receive it, I hope it passes to my niece, Sophie. If neither accepts it, I prefer the executor to obtain a current valuation and offer it to the family before sale, subject to the Will.
ASSET-002 is the rental property at 14 Example Street. It is solely owned and mortgaged. The property manager is Horizon Property, and the lease expires on 30 November 2026. Before any sale decision, please secure the property, continue insurance and lawful tenancy management, obtain tax and legal advice, and check the Will. My preference is not intended to override estate debts or the executor’s duties.
ASSET-003 is my 40% shareholding in Example Family Pty Ltd. The company, not I personally, owns its vehicles, equipment and trade mark. The members register, constitution and shareholder agreement are held by my solicitor. My preference is that the business continue long enough for the directors and executor to assess an orderly transfer or sale. This memorandum does not appoint a director or transfer company property.
During my lifetime I transferred $120,000 to Daniel. The signed loan agreement, bank records and repayment schedule are stored in the family loan folder. It was a loan, not a gift or early inheritance. The executor should obtain advice before treating the outstanding balance in the estate administration.
The current asset index, photographs, valuations, title and share records are stored in Evaheld. Every earlier memorandum should be marked superseded.
Memorandum of wishes mistakes that can defeat the purpose
Do not use the memorandum to make a gift that should be in the Will. Do not describe assets vaguely. Do not assume ownership. Do not give company, trust or superannuation assets as though they were personally owned. Do not ignore mortgages, leases, security interests, tax records or co-owners.
Do not put live passwords, private keys, PINs or safe combinations in a document that may circulate. Do not say sale proceeds should replace a vanished asset unless the formal estate plan supports that result. Do not leave one beneficiary with an asset whose debt, storage or insurance they cannot reasonably manage without addressing the issue.
Do not use the document to punish family members. An unequal asset split explanation should state relevant facts, prior support and planning context without personal attacks. High-conflict estates should be reviewed by a solicitor.
Do not keep multiple undated versions. The executor must know which memorandum is current, what changed and where the formal records are located.
How to store and update an executor asset memorandum
Keep one protected master version and a clear asset index. Link photographs, valuations, invoices, titles, certificates, contracts and adviser details without embedding unnecessary sensitive data into the memorandum itself.
Tell the executor and solicitor that the memorandum exists. Keep it near the estate records, but ask the solicitor how it should be labelled and stored so it is not mistaken for part of the Will. Give asset-specific advisers or recipients only the relevant sections.
Review the memorandum whenever an asset is bought, sold, replaced, transferred, refinanced, insured, moved, damaged or used as security. Update it after a new Will, company restructure, trust change, new family loan, lifetime gift, changed beneficiary or relationship change.
Evaheld’s legacy contact settings checklist can help confirm that the executor, solicitor and asset-specific advisers still have the right access.
Why create and share a memorandum of wishes in Evaheld
Specific assets change more often than a Will. Jewellery moves, vehicles are replaced, rental properties are refinanced, shareholdings change, businesses acquire new intellectual property and family loans are repaid or redocumented. A static note becomes unreliable quickly.
Evaheld gives the memorandum one protected home beside the asset photographs, valuations, records, adviser contacts and version history. The executor can access the complete index. A valuer can receive only the item record. A family member can receive the story behind an heirloom without receiving private estate information.
The memorandum can sit beside the Will location, executor pack, digital directory and broader letter of wishes, giving the executor a coherent path from formal authority to practical evidence and personal context.
Start your memorandum of wishes template today. Add the three assets most likely to be misunderstood, confirm who owns them and link each preference to the formal document and supporting evidence.
FAQs about memorandum of wishes templates
A memorandum of wishes template is a structured, usually non-binding record that helps an executor understand your preferences for specific assets, supporting documents, interim management, valuations, family context and fallback choices. It should support rather than replace the Will. Evaheld’s letter of wishes guide explains the wider companion-document role, while Willed’s current guidance confirms that a letter, statement or memorandum of wishes can provide confidential context to executors.
Usually no. It is generally persuasive guidance, and the executor or trustee must still follow the Will, trust deed and applicable law. Drafting that looks like a new testamentary document may create conflict or litigation risk. Evaheld’s legal Will guide explains the formal-document boundary, while Carroll & O’Dea’s estate-planning analysis warns against turning a memorandum into an informal Will or fettering discretion.
You can record a clear preference and the story behind the item, but the memorandum may not legally transfer ownership. Valuable, disputed or essential gifts should be dealt with in the Will or another effective instrument. Evaheld’s heirloom planning guide helps identify and document sentimental property, while Legal123’s specific-assets guide explains why precise identification and photographs matter.
Record the asset name, full description, ownership type, location, account or serial reference where safe, photograph or valuation reference, preferred and backup recipient, debt or finance attached, what should happen if the asset no longer exists, and where the binding legal instruction is found. Evaheld’s executor handover checklist organises the supporting records, while Rockliffs Lawyers’ memorandum of wishes guidance highlights personal assets, document locations and non-estate assets.
A non-binding memorandum should include a fallback such as “no substitute gift”, “the replacement item if substantially equivalent” or “follow the Will and residuary clause”. Do not assume an executor can recreate a gift that no longer exists. Evaheld’s legacy review checklist helps prompt updates, while Legal123’s specific-gift guidance explains why asset changes and vague descriptions create estate problems.
Not necessarily. Joint tenancy, mortgages, co-ownership agreements and the legal title can determine whether an asset enters the estate at all. Real property and high-value assets should be reviewed with a solicitor and identified through current title and loan records. Evaheld’s estate-lawyer preparation guide helps gather the records, while Moneysmart’s estate-planning overview explains that an estate includes assets and liabilities and may require several coordinated documents.
You can identify them and explain context, but many do not pass under the Will or are controlled by fund rules, nominations, trust deeds, company records or shareholder agreements. Keep the binding nomination or control document current. Evaheld’s superannuation beneficiary guide explains the Australian process, while Moneysmart’s current super death-benefit guidance confirms that super does not automatically form part of the estate.
List the parties, date, original amount, balance, written agreement, repayment history, whether it was a loan or gift, supporting bank records and the adviser who can verify it. Do not cancel or vary a debt through an informal note unless legally effective advice confirms the method. Evaheld’s affairs-in-order checklist helps organise liabilities, while the ATO’s debt record-keeping provisions identify core details such as date, creditor, amount and repayment terms.
Identify the legal owner, entity, share class, member-register or certificate reference, governing agreement, key adviser, licences, domains, copyright, trade marks and the first operational actions required. Do not try to transfer control through the memorandum. Evaheld’s emergency binder can hold the continuity map, while ASIC’s members-register guidance explains the share information and executor context that company records must contain.
Keep one current dated version with or near the estate-planning records, tell the executor and solicitor where it is, restrict sensitive sections, and remove superseded copies. Review at least annually and after any sale, purchase, refinance, gift, new debt, business change, relationship change or new Will. Evaheld’s Rooms and access guidance supports role-based sharing, while Canstar’s when-I-die file guidance emphasises that the executor must know the records exist and where to find them.
Memorandum of wishes next steps for clearer asset administration
Confirm the Will and ownership records first. Build the asset index. Identify each item precisely. Record debt, security and non-estate pathways. Add preferred and backup outcomes without pretending the memorandum overrides the legal documents. Then date, version, protect and share the record deliberately.
The purpose is not to micromanage the executor. It is to remove avoidable uncertainty so the executor can find the asset, understand the context, locate the evidence and apply the formal estate plan with greater confidence.
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