HEALTH & CARE · THOUGHTFUL PREPARATION

What should be included in a dementia-specific advance care plan?

A dementia-specific advance care plan must go beyond standard forms to address the unique trajectory of the disease. It should include: 1) A values statement defining "quality of life," 2) Specific preferences for treatments common in late-stage dementia (antibiotics for pneumonia, tube feeding, hospitalization), 3) Preferences for comfort-focused care versus life-prolonging measures, and 4) Guidance on the use of restraints or sedation for behavioral symptoms.

Read full answer
HEALTH & CARE✧

Your care, in your words.

Care preferences, advance care planning, key contacts and an emergency-access QR card.

YOUR WISHES. YOUR CHOICES.✦ EVAHELD
A little preparation is an act of care.
FULL ANSWER

What should be included in a dementia-specific advance care plan?

Standard forms rarely go far enough for dementia because dementia changes capacity slowly, affects communication over time, and creates repeated decisions about comfort, safety, infection, hospital transfer, feeding, and family authority. A stronger plan combines medical wishes, personal values, practical care guidance, and named decision-makers so carers are not forced to guess during a crisis.

01 / DEMENTIA PLANS NEED MORE

Dementia plans need more than standard directives alone

A dementia-specific advance care plan should explain not only which treatments a person wants or refuses, but also how they define dignity, comfort, familiarity, safety, and acceptable quality of life. That wider context matters because later dementia care is often shaped by cumulative decisions rather than one dramatic emergency. Families may need to decide whether a new infection should be treated aggressively, whether a transfer to hospital will help or simply cause distress, or whether the goal is longer survival or calmer daily care.

This is why dementia planning usually sits best alongside broader health planning rather than as a single form tucked away in a drawer. Evaheld’s Health and Care vault gives families one place to organise these instructions, while the dementia planning life stage guide helps connect care wishes with practical documents, family communication, and later review points.

For many people, the real purpose of the plan is emotional as much as medical. It protects the person with dementia from being treated in ways they would have found frightening or unacceptable, and it protects loved ones from carrying the burden of uncertainty. If you are still shaping the broader picture, Evaheld’s guide on dementia planning after diagnosis is a useful companion topic.

02 / CARE & CONNECTION

Values statements guide later dementia care choices

The most important part of the plan is often the values statement. This is where the person explains what matters most if memory, speech, recognition, swallowing, or mobility decline. A good statement goes beyond phrases like “no heroic measures” and instead describes what a good day still looks like, what losses would feel unbearable, and what kinds of support would still feel worthwhile.

03 / THE STORIES WE KEEP

How to define quality of life before memory shifts

Useful prompts include whether being at home matters more than pursuing every treatment, whether recognising close family is central to identity, whether severe agitation or ongoing fear would make life-prolonging treatment feel unacceptable, and whether comfort feeding, music, spiritual care, or familiar routines should remain priorities even if speech becomes limited. These details help clinicians interpret the person’s wishes when a form alone cannot answer the situation.

The plan should also note cultural, spiritual, and relational preferences. Some people want prayers, rituals, quiet companionship, or familiar objects nearby. Others want a clear preference for privacy, minimal intervention, or a strong focus on symptom relief. If you need examples for translating beliefs into practical wording, the article on dementia advance care planning helps show how values can be documented in language families and clinicians can actually use.

04 / TREATMENT SCENARIOS SETTLE BEFORE

Treatment scenarios to settle before capacity shifts

Once the values statement is clear, the plan should address predictable dementia scenarios. These often include chest infections, urinary tract infections, dehydration, swallowing problems, repeated falls, delirium, pressure injuries, wandering-related harm, and decisions about resuscitation or ventilation. A dementia plan should state whether the person would usually prefer treatment aimed at recovery, treatment only if there is a strong chance of restoring comfort and function, or comfort-focused care even if life may be shorter.

05 / WHY IT MATTERS

Why hospital transfers may clash with comfort goals

Hospital care can be appropriate in some situations, but it can also be noisy, disorienting, and risky for a person with advanced cognitive impairment. A good plan should say whether the person wants treatment in place wherever possible, such as at home, in supported accommodation, or in residential care, unless a transfer offers a clear and meaningful benefit. This is especially helpful overnight or when unfamiliar clinicians are making rapid decisions.

06 / QUESTIONS CLARIFYING COMFORT ACCEPTABLE

Questions clarifying comfort and acceptable trade offs

The plan should be explicit about tube feeding, assisted hydration, antibiotics, CPR, ventilation, sedation for severe distress, and the use of restraints. For example, a person may accept short-term antibiotics if they improve comfort, but reject tube feeding if swallowing has failed and the burden is high. Another person may accept medication for severe agitation but still want restraint use kept to an absolute minimum. If you are weighing the language of directive documents, the article on advance directives and living wills and Evaheld’s explanation of an advance care directive in a health vault both help clarify what should be formalised.

Behaviour-related preferences belong here too. Dementia can bring fear, wandering, aggression, hallucinations, refusal of care, or day-night reversal. The plan should say what approaches the person would prefer before restrictive responses are considered, such as reassurance, reduced stimulation, favourite music, a known carer, pain review, toileting checks, or simpler communication. A personalised care template like Evaheld’s guide to a dementia-friendly care plan can make this section far more specific.

07 / THE PEOPLE WE TRUST

Family roles and sharing plans reduce later conflict

Even the best plan is weak if nobody knows it exists or if the wrong person is expected to speak for the patient. A dementia-specific plan should identify the substitute decision-maker, any backup person, the treating doctor, and the key relatives or carers who need access. It should also record where the signed directive, guardianship paperwork, medication lists, diagnoses, and emergency contacts are stored.

08 / HOW BRIEF SUBSTITUTE DECISION-MAKERS

How to brief substitute decision-makers with confidence

The nominated decision-maker should hear directly from the person, while capacity is still strong, about the difference between “do everything” and “do what fits my values”. That conversation should cover common grey areas: treating infection for comfort, declining burdensome interventions, accepting palliative care, and balancing safety with dignity. If this role has not been discussed properly, families often argue because each person is relying on memory, guilt, or fear. Evaheld’s guidance on preparing an enduring guardian or substitute decision-maker is useful here.

Sharing also matters beyond the legal appointee. Adult children, partners, siblings, aged care staff, and GPs do not all need the same level of detail, but they do need clarity about the person’s overall direction. Many families find it easier to start those conversations after reading a practical explainer such as how to discuss end-of-life wishes, then pairing it with Evaheld’s page on navigating dementia progression and planning ahead.

09 / COMMON PLANNING ERRORS CAN

Common planning errors can defeat clearly stated wishes

The most common mistake is being too vague. Phrases like “keep me comfortable” or “I do not want extraordinary treatment” may sound clear, but they do not tell clinicians what to do about pneumonia, swallowing failure, repeated hospital admissions, or intense agitation. Another common problem is separating legal documents from care preferences, so the family knows who the decision-maker is but still does not know what that person should decide.

Delay is another major risk. Dementia planning works best soon after diagnosis, while the person can still reflect, ask questions, and revise wording calmly. Waiting until the disease is advanced may leave everyone relying on old assumptions. The guide to first dementia planning steps for carers shows why early action reduces later panic, and Evaheld’s overview of essential legal documents for dementia helps ensure the plan is backed by the right paperwork.

Another mistake is treating the plan as finished. Dementia is progressive, and care settings, medical needs, and family capacity can all change. A document written once and never revisited may no longer reflect the person’s health, relationships, or tolerance for intervention. Finally, many families forget to write down what should happen if the substitute decision-maker becomes unavailable, disagrees with others, or feels unable to act. Those contingencies matter.

10 / HOW EVAHELD SUPPORTS DEMENTIA

How Evaheld supports dementia planning across time

Evaheld is especially useful for dementia planning because the challenge is not only creating a directive, but keeping values, documents, contact details, and care notes connected as circumstances evolve. Families can store the formal directive alongside supporting context such as medical summaries, care preferences, identity reflections, family instructions, and practical records about who should be contacted and when.

That matters for globally dispersed families too. Dementia care decisions are often shaped across distance, time zones, and multiple care teams, yet the person at the centre still deserves care that reflects who they are. Evaheld gives families a structured, secure way to hold both the administrative record and the human context, so a plan is not reduced to a checkbox form when critical decisions arise.

The platform also supports regular review rather than one-off drafting. A family can update preferences after a hospital admission, add a new medication summary, refine language about distress management, or store notes from a specialist consultation. This makes the plan more resilient than static paperwork alone. It also keeps the wider family conversation anchored in the person’s documented values rather than in memory, assumption, or panic.

11 / CARE & CONNECTION

Practical review points after diagnosis and care shifts

After the first version is written, review it after major changes: a confirmed diagnosis, a significant decline in memory or function, a move into supported living, a serious infection, a hospital admission, or a change in the nominated decision-maker. Ask whether the values statement still sounds true, whether treatment preferences are specific enough, and whether the people who need access still know where the plan is.

It is also sensible to check the plan against trusted public guidance from ACP Australia guidance, check the plan against trusted public guidance, and the NHS dementia information pages. Those resources can help families sense-check language, understand progression, and prepare for care decisions without relying on guesswork or crisis thinking.

In practical terms, a strong dementia-specific advance care plan should contain: a values statement, clear goals of care, preferences for common treatment scenarios, guidance for distress and behavioural symptoms, authority for substitute decision-makers, document-sharing instructions, and review triggers. When those pieces are written clearly and revisited over time, the plan becomes a genuine expression of the person’s wishes rather than a formality completed too late.

12 / THE LEGACY VAULT

Three parts of life. One thoughtfully organised place.

Evaheld brings the personal and the practical together, while letting you decide what stays private and what you share.

Story & Legacy

Preserve voice recordings, videos, memories, photographs & life stories.

Explore stories ↗

Health & Care

Keep care wishes, medical directives & emergency health info together.

Explore care ↗

Estate Planning

Organise wills, passwords & information loved ones may need.

Explore essentials ↗
13 / A FIRST STEP, MADE SIMPLE

What would you want someone to know?

Not sure where to begin? Explore an example of the thoughtful prompts inside Evaheld. Select the kind of thing you want to keep, then see how one small answer can become the beginning of something meaningful.

YOUR STARTING POINT01 — 03
A STORY WORTH TELLING
“What’s a small moment from childhood you never want to forget?”

It can take just a few sentences to preserve something irreplaceable.

01 How do i navigate the progression of dementia and plan ahead? Dementia progression · Disease stages · Care planning +
Navigating dementia progression requires understanding typical disease stages whilst recognizing individual variation, documenting wishes and preferences early whilst person can communicate them, establishing legal and financial protections before capacity lost, planning for increasing care needs over time, preparing emotionally for likely deterioration, having honest conversations about end-of-life wishes, building support network for long journey, accessing disease-specific education and resources, regularly reassessing care plans as needs change, and balancing hope with realistic preparation—recognising that whilst trajectory variable, proactive planning whilst person retains capacity honors autonomy whilst preparing family for challenging road ahead.
Read full answer: how do i navigate the progression of dementia and plan ahead?
02 How do i document healthcare wishes? Healthcare wishes · Medical preferences · Advance directives +
Create Advance Decision refusing unwanted treatments, appoint healthcare proxy, define quality of life, specify treatment preferences about life support, document pain management priorities, express location preferences, record organ donation wishes, share with doctors and family, and review regularly ensuring medical care matches values when unable to communicate.
Read full answer: how do i document healthcare wishes?
03 What is end-of-life planning and what should it include? End-of-life planning · Advance care planning · Death planning +
End-of-life planning is the process of making your care wishes, decision-makers, essential documents, practical information and personal preferences clear before they are urgently needed.
Read full answer: what is end-of-life planning and what should it include?
04 How do i start end-of-life planning conversations with a loved one? Family conversations · Talking about death · Initiating planning +
Begin with empathy and timing, choose a calm moment without distractions, start with general questions about values and wishes, share your own thoughts to model openness, use "I" statements to express concern, listen without judgment, acknowledge their autonomy, focus on their comfort and legacy rather than just practicalities, and recognize this as an ongoing dialogue rather than a single conversation.
Read full answer: how do i start end-of-life planning conversations with a loved one?
05 Why should i plan ahead and get my affairs in order even if i'm relatively young and healthy? Planning ahead · Estate planning · Advance planning +
Planning ahead at any age provides peace of mind, protects loved ones from chaos during emergencies, ensures your wishes are known and honoured, prevents family conflict and confusion, makes difficult decisions during calm rather than crisis, demonstrates care for those you'll leave behind, and recognises that unexpected events—accidents, sudden illness, or death—can strike anyone regardless of age or current health status.
Read full answer: why should i plan ahead and get my affairs in order even if i'm relatively young and healthy?
06 How do i appoint and prepare my enduring guardian (substitute decision-maker)? enduring guardian · medical treatment decision maker · substitute decision maker +
In your Health & Care vault, you can formally name and document your Enduring Guardian (called Medical Treatment Decision Maker in Victoria, or Substitute Decision-Maker in aged care contexts). Evaheld guides you through choosing the right person, discussing your wishes with them, and documenting their legal authority and contact details.
Read full answer: how do i appoint and prepare my enduring guardian (substitute decision-maker)?
07 What is an advance care directive and why does it matter? advance care directive · healthcare planning · medical wishes +
An Advance Care Directive records your future healthcare instructions, values or preferences for a time when you may not be able to communicate them. Rules and forms differ across Australia.
Read full answer: what is an advance care directive and why does it matter?
08 How can Evaheld help families navigating dementia planning and care? Dementia care coordination · Legacy preservation · Family communication platform +
Evaheld provides a secure, centralized platform for dementia-specific planning and family collaboration. It helps document critical legal and care information, store and share important documents, facilitate family communication to reduce conflict, and, most importantly, capture and preserve the life stories, voice, and essence of the person with dementia before memories fade, creating a lasting legacy for the family.
Read full answer: how can Evaheld help families navigating dementia planning and care?
09 What is dementia planning, and why should it start immediately after a diagnosis? Early-stage planning · Legal capacity · Power of attorney +
Dementia planning is the proactive process of making legal, financial, medical, and care decisions while the person with dementia still has the mental capacity to participate. It must start immediately to protect their autonomy, ensure their wishes are honored, prevent future family conflict, and secure the resources and care structure needed for the progressive challenges ahead.
Read full answer: what is dementia planning, and why should it start immediately after a diagnosis?
10 How do i navigate end-of-life decisions and transitions with degenerative illness? End-of-life · Hospice · Death preparation +
End-of-life navigation requires honest prognostic conversations with medical team, clear advance directive documentation about desired care intensity, understanding hospice criteria and benefits, making peace with relationships and unfinished business, completing legacy documentation and final messages, considering where and how you want to die, discussing preferences with family reducing their decision burden, addressing spiritual or existential preparation, planning funeral and memorial preferences, and recognizing when shifting from curative to comfort-focused care—enabling peaceful dignified death aligned with your values.
Read full answer: how do i navigate end-of-life decisions and transitions with degenerative illness?
11 How do you create a care plan for progressive illness? Care planning · Home care · Medical coordination +
A good care plan for progressive illness changes over time. It should record current needs, likely future decisions, care preferences, decision-makers, practical support and when the plan should be reviewed.
Read full answer: how do you create a care plan for progressive illness?
12 Is an advance care directive legally valid in australia? legally valid advance care directive · Australian healthcare law · state-specific ACD +
Advance Care Directive laws and formal requirements differ across Australian states and territories. Evaheld can help you organise and store care wishes, but legal validity depends on the applicable jurisdiction and how the directive was made.
Read full answer: is an advance care directive legally valid in australia?
A GIFT THAT TELLS THEIR STORY

A whole life.
One story at a time.

Give someone you love a beautiful way to preserve their stories, voice, photos and memories. No memoir to write. Just a meaningful gift they can enjoy at their own pace.

EVERY STORY STARTS SOMEWHERE

“What’s one childhood memory you’d love our family to keep?”

A GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING
THEIR VOICE

The voice you know by heart.

Give them a way to preserve their familiar voice, favourite stories and little pieces of wisdom for those they love.

Founding Family Limited Time Only $197

Get offer